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Kung Fu writer

My yellow sash graduation, October 2010 (yes, last year)

There really are people who can take you down with the flick of a wrist or the twist of a foot. I met a few of them in person over the weekend when I attended the Chi Lin Kung Fu reunion.

My instructor and a dozen or so Kung Fu masters were there. What an impressive bunch! (And a bit intimidating, especially when I had to perform for my purple sash test in front of them!)

With only two years of Tae Kwon Do and a year of Kung Fu under my, uh, sash, it’s humbling to be around men who’ve been studying the martial arts for thirty years or more. Their level of skill is astounding.

It’s a testament to the dedication, training, and practice they’ve put in.

And, like most experiences where I’m surrounded by experts, I got to thinking about the parallels to learning to write.

It’s incredibly easy to look at Nora Roberts or David Baldacci and think you’ll never be that good. And maybe you won’t. But it’s easy to miss the fact that those authors were new once too. They had to write several books—or maybe revise the same one repeatedly—before they got the call.

They spent years honing their craft, and have spent the subsequent years improving it.

If they did it, so can you.

So can I.

We all have things we’re good at. Some of us are athletic, some are musical, some are technical, and some are writers. Or all of those things. But even a natural talent requires focused effort, practice, and training.

Whatever your goal is, writing or otherwise, you can’t jump from beginner to master overnight. Even earning your black belt/sash (getting published) only means you’ve mastered the basics. There’s always more work to do, more to learn.

I may never be as prolific as Nora Roberts, but I'm sure going to try.

I may never be able to kill a man with my pinkie finger either, but someday I might just be able to take him down with my foot. 😉

Tell your friends!


  1. Reply

    Great post, Gwen! I like your analogy of publication and achieving the rank of black belt. So true. Congratulations on your purple sash!

  2. Reply

    What an uplifting post. Everyone who’s amazing at something started at the beginning and worked hard to get there. I like that sentiment. 🙂

    • Reply

      I’m glad that resonated with you, Kali. I have to remind myself constantly that people rarely find true overnight success. That’s what we see because we didn’t know who they were, but behind the scenes they’ve been working at it for years.

      How are you feeling these days? 😀

      • Reply

        I am feeling amazingly large, but pretty good. I’m 5’3″ and short waisted, so baby is growing basically straight out. It’s a weird feeling and I look more pregnant than I am. Only 8 more weeks, give or take, to go!

    • Reply

      Hey, Crystal! Thanks. Our boys did TKD with us for two years. It was fun to do it as a whole family, but swimming has taken over their lives. 😉 I think it’s a great way for them to learn patience, balance, and focus, and gain confidence. Plus, they get some good self-defense moves.

      Thanks for stopping by!

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